My own journey.

My Mission is…


To hold a safe connecting space for people to awaken to their alienated parts.

To re-create with incredible loving awareness their wholeness of being, so that they will know and act on what really matters to them.

 
 

My journey.

I have faced various forms of adversity through quite a number of life challenges. I had to dig deep, reach my low and I re-invented a number of times until I eventually felt that I had ‘explored the width and breadth of who I am. ( Feel free to ask me for more details)

This took time as I found that when I came up for breath hoping ‘this was it’, life pushed me back down again to learn more and heal more. I carried out this inner journey by accessing my intuition, self-awareness, determination, vulnerability, and courage. I had to meet my traumas, own my anger, find my resilience and the wisdom within, appreciating the gifts they all gave me. 

I found that the only way through to live a meaningful and resourceful life was to make a commitment to myself to live every day in mindful authenticity. Through the years, from then to now, I have remained deeply committed to live my life authentically, wholeheartedly, and emotionally available to achieve successful relationships. 

What inspires me.

 

My life journey, passion and curiosity has been about gaining wisdom, knowledge and experience about the human condition and flourishing.

Supporting people to heal themselves, to love and be the best version of themselves is core to my existence.

My purpose as a coach is to connect and collaborate with individuals, couples, families, groups and teams whose desire it is to heal, develop & evolve towards being free to be who they truly are in their world, in their relationship with themself and with significant others.

Client testimonials.

Lilian is a life-line, a sounding board and a safe space to open up and share the things we keep closest to our hearts. She makes it easy to be honest with oneself and has a heart of compassion and understanding. She shows no judgement and helps to give one clarity of thought. I highly recommend her services.

— Lisa S

I came to Lillian 3 years ago after a tragic loss and a lost sense of direction. Lillian listened, understood, and most importantly never judged. She gave me the tools to slowly start to see my self-worth again, she guided me and helped me navigate a new chapter in my life. Kind, compassionate, disciplined, wise and the best mentor a person could ever hope to find is how I think of her.

— Cathy P.

Lilian has been such an integral part of my personal and professional development over the last two years by providing me with invaluable tools to make better decisions. I used to try and solve problems by myself by “doing the work” without assistance but I kept falling into the same behavioural loop which became very frustrating. She provided a safe space for me to unpack the reasons for my actions, reactions, and emotions which built a powerful foundation to equip me with the knowledge to improve in every aspect of my life for the long term.

— Steven B.

Lilian is the most wonderful life coach and person, that I have been fortunate to know. Her kindness, empathy, love, and guidance will stay with me always. Her constant probing for self-understanding and finding my own practical solutions that were do-able, focused and sensible was truly valuable. The emphasis on self-love and care has created a real foundation for me. But more than anything, I felt safe and ‘held’ in her warm loving hands and in her coaching space. She is such an amazing inspiration and I hope we meet again

— Miriam R

My Qualifications & Education

Prior to qualifying as an Integral Coach and Mediator, I founded the agency ‘Au Pair At Home’ in 1994 which specialises in the placement of childcare within the family environment, extending where necessary into special need placement within the school environment. I have interviewed and met with thousands of diverse candidates and parents. Matching the family need with the right au pair candidate’s qualifications, personality and ability plays a vital part in the success of the placement.

  • B.Soc.Sc Psychology & Sociology University of Cape Town

  • Accredited Integral Coach - DIPC (Integral Practitioner Coaching) Integral Africa (TCC)

  • Accredited Enneagram Coach -Integrative Practitioner iEQ9

  • Accredited Mediator with FAMAC

  • Accredited Emotional Maturity Inventory Practitioner - Zonal Leadership Institute

  • Family Constellation Facilitation - Family Healing Circle - 2 x Intensive training

  • SACAP – Counselling & Facilitating Skills Courses

  • Lifeline – Personal Growth & Counselling

  • I-Coach Academy – 1 Year Business Coach Masters Programme

  • FAMAC workshops – various on parenting, children and divorce

  • Chestnut Paes Enneagram Academy – Courses on Parenting & Family Dynamics, Enneagram

  • Love Languages & Shadow of the Enneagram

  • Various Courses & Workshops – psychophonetics, trauma, meditation, spirituality

  • Somatic energy work.

Start your journey, today.

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